WELCOME TO THE COMPASSION PROJECT

What If You Could Speak from the Heart... and

Finally Be Received with Love?

Step into a sacred space where your voice matters, your needs are honored, and love becomes the language that guides your relationships!

Have you ever wished you could connect with others more deeply, navigate conversations without defensiveness, or simply listen in a way that transforms relationships?

Then the Compassion Project is your gateway to unlocking the power of empathetic listening and authentic connection!

This 10-week coaching program isn’t about improving your verbal or written communication—you’ve already mastered that. Instead, it’s about something deeper. It’s about learning the Language of Love—a way of communicating that comes straight from the heart.

Are you ready to express your feelings and needs in ways that build connection rather than create distance?

Do you want to deepen and improve the quality of your relationships while becoming a peacemaker who brings more compassion into your life and the world?

If so, The Compassion Project is the course for you. This life-changing program will empower you to transform the way you communicate, foster meaningful relationships, and create lasting harmony in your life!

What is The Compassion Project?


The Compassion Project is about learning to:

  • Listen with the heart —to truly hear and understand others.

  • Receive feedback without criticism —so you can grow without the sting of judgment.

  • Engage in self-reflection —to deepen your self-awareness and enhance intimacy in all your relationships.

  • Foster connection and growth —while living in your most authentic expression.


It’s not just about communication—it’s about transformation!

This program will guide you to your heart space, helping you become a more empathetic, compassionate, and grounded human being.

WHY IS THIS IMPORTANT?

As the saying goes, “You have two ears and one mouth so that you can listen twice as much as you speak.” Yet, most of us have never been taught how to listen—truly listen. We’ve never learned how to hold space for others, how to overcome reactivity and triggers, or how to connect without fear, shame, blame, or guilt!

Until now!


The Compassion Project bridges this gap by providing practical tools and techniques to help you:

  • Stay grounded and centered, even in challenging conversations.

  • Transform reactivity into loving presence.

  • Build deeper, more meaningful connections with yourself and others.

WHAT CAN YOU EXPECT?


This is a journey—not just to better communication, but to rediscover your heart space. Over the course of 10 transformative weeks, you’ll learn:

  • How to hold space for others without judgment.

  • How to hear feedback without perceiving it as criticism.

  • How to overcome emotional triggers and respond with love.

These tools are designed to bring you clarity, understanding, and the ability to connect authentically.

By the end of this program, you’ll be equipped to listen with compassion and express yourself from a place of truth.

IMAGINE THIS...


Imagine walking into any conversation—whether with your partner, your family, or your colleagues—and feeling completely present, calm, and open. Imagine knowing how to listen, not just with your ears, but with your heart. Imagine the kind of deep, loving connections this could create in your life.

This is what The Compassion Project offers—a pathway to living, loving, and communicating from your most authentic self!

Are You Ready?

If you’re ready to take the first step toward becoming a more empathetic, loving listener and compassionate communicator, then I invite you to join us.

Together, let’s explore the Language of Love and transform the way you connect with the world!

The Compassion Project: The Language of Love!

Your journey to the heart starts here!

  • If you want to get better at expressing your feelings and needs in ways that create connection rather than distance, this course is for you!

  • If you're looking for a way to improve and deepen the quality of your relationships, this course is for you!

  • If you want to grow as a peacemaker and make the world a more compassionate place, this course is for you!

If you want to connect authentically with other people and "be real," this course is for you!

The Compassion Project: The Language of Love!


In this coaching program you will learn to:

  • Be more aware of your deeper needs and the needs of all people so that you may find peace and resolution in conflict situations.

  • Think and communicate in terms of "needs", free of judgement.

  • Use constructive and proven strategies to resolve conflict.

  • Connect with your partner(s) by making compassionate requests that transcend disconnection.

  • Discover the impact that tone plays in communication and overcome it's effects on you.

  • Consciously move to a more compassionate state of being and avoid triggers.


When and Where:

The group course is offered only twice a year!  

Advanced Registration is required and limited to just 12 Participants

The next cohort will start Monday, July 7th, 2025 and spots are filling quickly!

Mondays Via Zoom @ 6:00pm-8:00pm PST

NOTE: The price goes up every Monday till we start so get in early!

Your journey to the heart starts here!

Starts Monday, July 7th, 2025

Testimonials

"This program completely changed the way I communicate—not just with others, but with myself. I feel more connected, less reactive, and more confident in holding space for the people I love. The Compassion Project is a gift everyone should give themselves."

Sarah L., San Diego, CA

"Before this course, I didn’t even realize how much I struggled to truly listen. Now, my relationships feel deeper and more meaningful because I can connect from a place of love and understanding. Thank you for this life-changing experience!"

James P., Austin, TX

"The Compassion Project has been a game-changer for me. It’s given me tools to navigate difficult conversations with ease and taught me how to listen without feeling defensive. My family and friends have noticed the difference—it’s like I’m a whole new person!"

Amanda R., Seattle, WA

"I’ve taken communication workshops before, but nothing comes close to this. The way this program blends self-reflection, emotional intelligence, and practical tools is incredible. I finally feel at home in my heart."

Raj K., New York, NY

"This isn’t just a course—it’s a journey to your most authentic self. I’ve never felt more empowered to be a compassionate listener and communicator. The Compassion Project has given me tools I’ll carry for the rest of my life."

Mia T., Denver, CO

"I came into this program wanting to improve my relationships, but I got so much more. The tools I learned here have transformed my marriage, my friendships, and even how I see myself. I can’t recommend this enough."

Carlos M., Los Angeles, CA

"What stood out to me most about this program is how grounded and practical it is. It’s not just theory—it’s actionable steps you can take right away to improve your life. I feel more present, loving, and connected every day."

Emily H., Chicago, IL

"I joined The Compassion Project because I wanted to stop being so reactive in conversations. By the end, I realized it was about so much more than that. I’ve found a new sense of peace and clarity that has touched every area of my life."

Daniel F., Miami, FL

"I didn’t think a 10-week program could have such a profound impact, but it did. I’ve learned to listen without judgment, express myself authentically, and stay calm even in tough situations. It’s been absolutely transformative."


Lisa G., Portland, OR

"This course taught me to listen with my heart, and that has made all the difference. I used to dread feedback and avoid conflict, but now I see those moments as opportunities for growth. Thank you for guiding me back to my heart space!"

Michael S., Boston, MA

MEET YOUR FACILITATOR


~ Shiva J is an Advanced Certified Tantra Educator, Kundalini Yoga Instructor, Somatic Bodyworker, Certified Life Coach, Licensed Clinical Hypnotherapist, and Master NLP Practitioner. Since 2003, he has been dedicated to transformational work, helping individuals and couples elevate their lives and relationships through profound healing and growth.

A skilled community builder and compassionate healer, Shiva J brings a unique perspective to his practice by integrating the mind, body, and spirit. He combines a wide range of modalities with his gift of insight to guide clients toward clarity, empowerment, and lasting transformation. His work focuses on fostering deeper connection, intimacy, and self-awareness, enabling clients to overcome challenges and achieve their fullest potential.

When not facilitating sessions or workshops, Shiva J thrives in building connections and celebrating life's vibrancy. Whether he’s enjoying a dirty chai latte at a local café, dancing ecstatically, playing drums at a circle, or exploring scenic trails, his passion for life is evident in all he does

Shiva J is available for private sessions, workshops, and retreats, bringing his extensive expertise and warm presence to every interaction.

FAQS

What is The Compassion Project?

The Compassion Project: The Language of Love is a 10-week program designed to teach Nonviolent Communication (NVC) and help participants develop deeper emotional intelligence, compassionate listening, and authentic expression. It’s about learning to listen with the heart, receive feedback without defensiveness, and foster deeper connections in all areas of life.

Who is this program for?

This program is for anyone who wants to:

**Strengthen their relationships (romantic, family, friendships, work, etc.).

**Improve communication and express themselves more clearly and authentically.

**Become a better listener and hold space for others with love and understanding.

**Reduce reactivity and emotional triggers by developing self-awareness.

**Transform conflict into connection through compassionate dialogue.

What will I learn in this program?

Over 10 weeks, you will:

**Master the principles of Nonviolent Communication (NVC).

**Develop emotional intelligence and a deeper connection to yourself and others.

**Learn to hold space and listen without fear, shame, blame, or guilt.

**Gain tools to overcome reactivity and respond with compassion instead of defensiveness.

**Experience practical exercises and real-life applications to reinforce learning.

How is this program different from other communication courses?

Unlike traditional communication courses, The Compassion Project is not just about talking better—it’s about deep inner transformation.

This program is:

**Heart-centered – We focus on feeling, presence, and connection rather than just techniques.

**Experiential – You won’t just learn concepts; you’ll practice them in real-life situations.

**Focused on reducing reactivity – It’s about shifting how you respond to conflict, not just what you say.

Do I need prior experience with Nonviolent Communication (NVC)?

No prior experience is required! Whether you’re completely new to NVC or have some knowledge, this program will guide you step by step in applying these principles in a meaningful way.

How does the program work?

The program runs for 10 weeks, with each session focusing on a key aspect of NVC and heart-centered communication.

You’ll participate in:

**Live sessions (details TBD)

**Reflective exercises to deepen self-awareness

**Interactive discussions and real-time practice

**Homework assignments to integrate what you learn into daily life

What happens in the final session, “The Hero’s Journey”?

The final session is a powerful reflection on your transformation throughout the program. Participants will look back at their growth, share their experiences, and recognize their journey toward more conscious, loving communication. As part of this, you’ll write a short essay after Session 9 about how the program has impacted you.

How much time will I need to commit?

Each week, you’ll need approximately:

**1-2 hours for the live session (or self-paced learning, if applicable).

**30-60 minutes for reflection, exercises, and practice.

**Additional time for integration (applying what you learn in real life).

What if I miss a session?

Each week, you’ll need approximately:

If you miss a live session, there will be recordings available so you can catch up. However, live participation is highly encouraged for the best experience.

Is this program interactive or self-paced?

This is an interactive program, meaning you’ll engage in discussions, practices, and real-time feedback. If you’re unable to attend live, you can still participate via recordings, but the depth of transformation comes from actively engaging with the group.

Is this only for people in relationships?

Not at all! The skills you’ll learn apply to all relationships—romantic, family, friendships, work, and even your relationship with yourself.

How do I sign up?

More details on enrollment will be available at the bottom of this page. If you’re interested, reach out to [email protected] to be notified when the next registration opens.