Then the Compassion Project is your gateway to unlocking the power of empathetic listening and authentic connection!
This 10-week coaching program isn’t about improving your verbal or written communication—you’ve already mastered that. Instead, it’s about something deeper. It’s about learning the Language of Love—a way of communicating that comes straight from the heart.
Are you ready to express your feelings and needs in ways that build connection rather than create distance?
Do you want to deepen and improve the quality of your relationships while becoming a peacemaker who brings more compassion into your life and the world?
If so, The Compassion Project is the course for you. This life-changing program will empower you to transform the way you communicate, foster meaningful relationships, and create lasting harmony in your life!
What is The Compassion Project?
The Compassion Project is about learning to:
Listen with the heart —to truly hear and understand others.
Receive feedback without criticism —so you can grow without the sting of judgment.
Engage in self-reflection —to deepen your self-awareness and enhance intimacy in all your relationships.
Foster connection and growth —while living in your most authentic expression.
It’s not just about communication—it’s about transformation!
This program will guide you to your heart space, helping you become a more empathetic, compassionate, and grounded human being.
The Compassion Project bridges this gap by providing practical tools and techniques to help you:
Stay grounded and centered, even in challenging conversations.
Transform reactivity into loving presence.
Build deeper, more meaningful connections with yourself and others.
This is a journey—not just to better communication, but to rediscover your heart space. Over the course of 10 transformative weeks, you’ll learn:
How to hold space for others without judgment.
How to hear feedback without perceiving it as criticism.
How to overcome emotional triggers and respond with love.
These tools are designed to bring you clarity, understanding, and the ability to connect authentically.
By the end of this program, you’ll be equipped to listen with compassion and express yourself from a place of truth.
Your journey to the heart starts here!
If you want to get better at expressing your feelings and needs in ways that create connection rather than distance, this course is for you!
If you're looking for a way to improve and deepen the quality of your relationships, this course is for you!
If you want to grow as a peacemaker and make the world a more compassionate place, this course is for you!
In this coaching program you will learn to:
Be more aware of your deeper needs and the needs of all people so that you may find peace and resolution in conflict situations.
Think and communicate in terms of "needs", free of judgement.
Use constructive and proven strategies to resolve conflict.
Connect with your partner(s) by making compassionate requests that transcend disconnection.
Discover the impact that tone plays in communication and overcome it's effects on you.
Consciously move to a more compassionate state of being and avoid triggers.
Ready to transform every relationship in your life through the power of heart-centered communication?
Join our signature 10-week coaching program that teaches you a modernized approach to Nonviolent Communication - the skills that create lasting connection, resolve conflict with ease, and help you express your truth without triggering defensiveness.
Who This Program Transforms
Perfect if you're:
Struggling with reactive communication in your marriage, family, or workplace
Tired of walking on eggshells or avoiding difficult conversations
Ready to break patterns of criticism, defensiveness, and misunderstanding
Seeking deeper intimacy and authentic connection with those you love
Wanting to become a peacemaker in your community and relationships.
Ideal for:
Couples seeking better communication tools
Parents wanting to model healthy conflict resolution
Leaders looking to improve team dynamics
Anyone in helping professions (therapy, coaching, healthcare)
Individuals committed to personal growth and emotional mastery
The Complete Communication Transformation System:
Weeks 1-3: Foundation Building
Listen with your heart instead of your head
Distinguish between observations and judgments
Decode emotions to discover underlying needs
Transform your inner critic into self-compassion
Weeks 4-6: Advanced Connection Skills
Hold space for others without fixing or advising
Express your truth without blame or guilt-tripping
Set loving boundaries that honor everyone's needs
Make requests that invite connection, not resistance
Weeks 7-9: Emotional Mastery
Transform reactivity into responsive presence
Navigate triggers with grace and wisdom
Deepen intimacy through authentic vulnerability
Apply these tools to your most challenging relationships
Week 10: Integration & Celebration
Embody your new way of being in the world
Receive your certificate of completion
Commit to ongoing practice and growth
When: Mondays, 6:00-8:00 PM PST
Duration: 10 weeks starting Monday, July 7th, 2025
Format: Live Zoom sessions with small cohort (12 people maximum)
Recordings: All sessions recorded and available throughout the program
Materials: Weekly resources and practices delivered via email
Homework: Guided reflection and practice assignments between sessions
What's Included:
20 hours of live group coaching with Shiva J
Complete curriculum of proven communication tools
Weekly homework assignments and reflection prompts
All session recordings for lifetime access
Small cohort for personalized attention and deep connections
Certificate of completion
Starts Monday, July 7th, 2025
Sarah L., San Diego, CA
James P., Austin, TX
"The Compassion Project has been a game-changer for me. It’s given me tools to navigate difficult conversations with ease and taught me how to listen without feeling defensive. My family and friends have noticed the difference—it’s like I’m a whole new person!"
Amanda R., Seattle, WA
Raj K., New York, NY
Mia T., Denver, CO
Carlos M., Los Angeles, CA
Emily H., Chicago, IL
Daniel F., Miami, FL
Lisa G., Portland, OR
Michael S., Boston, MA
~ Shiva J is an Advanced Certified Tantra Educator, Kundalini Yoga Instructor, Somatic Bodyworker, Certified Life Coach, Licensed Clinical Hypnotherapist, and Master NLP Practitioner. Since 2003, he has been dedicated to transformational work, helping individuals and couples elevate their lives and relationships through profound healing and growth.
A skilled community builder and compassionate healer, Shiva J brings a unique perspective to his practice by integrating the mind, body, and spirit. He combines a wide range of modalities with his gift of insight to guide clients toward clarity, empowerment, and lasting transformation. His work focuses on fostering deeper connection, intimacy, and self-awareness, enabling clients to overcome challenges and achieve their fullest potential.
When not facilitating sessions or workshops, Shiva J thrives in building connections and celebrating life's vibrancy. Whether he’s enjoying a dirty chai latte at a local café, dancing ecstatically, playing drums at a circle, or exploring scenic trails, his passion for life is evident in all he does
Shiva J is available for private sessions, workshops, and retreats, bringing his extensive expertise and warm presence to every interaction.
Program Tuition: $1,200 (20 hours of expert coaching + materials + lifetime access)
Limited-Time Pricing for July Cohort:
Early Bird Special: $597 (EXPIRED)
Final Week Special: $797 (Save $403 - ends June 30th)
Last-Chance Rate: $997 (July 1-6)
Payment plans available - email for details
Why invest this much in communication skills?
Average couples therapy: $150/session x 10 sessions = $1,500
Cost of divorce (emotional + financial): $15,000-$50,000+
Value of transformed relationships: Priceless
This program pays for itself with just one major conflict resolved or one relationship saved!
FAQS
The Compassion Project: The Language of Love is a 10-week program designed to teach Nonviolent Communication (NVC) and help participants develop deeper emotional intelligence, compassionate listening, and authentic expression. It’s about learning to listen with the heart, receive feedback without defensiveness, and foster deeper connections in all areas of life.
We use a modernized approach to NVC that incorporates somatic awareness, emotional intelligence, and practical application for today's relationships.
Who is this program for?
This program is for anyone who wants to:
**Strengthen their relationships (romantic, family, friendships, work, etc.).
**Improve communication and express themselves more clearly and authentically.
**Become a better listener and hold space for others with love and understanding.
**Reduce reactivity and emotional triggers by developing self-awareness.
**Transform conflict into connection through compassionate dialogue.
Over 10 weeks, you will:
**Master the principles of Nonviolent Communication (NVC).
**Develop emotional intelligence and a deeper connection to yourself and others.
**Learn to hold space and listen without fear, shame, blame, or guilt.
**Gain tools to overcome reactivity and respond with compassion instead of defensiveness.
**Experience practical exercises and real-life applications to reinforce learning.
Unlike traditional communication courses, The Compassion Project is not just about talking better—it’s about deep inner transformation.
This program is:
**Heart-centered – We focus on feeling, presence, and connection rather than just techniques.
**Experiential – You won’t just learn concepts; you’ll practice them in real-life situations.
**Focused on reducing reactivity – It’s about shifting how you respond to conflict, not just what you say.
No prior experience is required! Whether you’re completely new to NVC or have some knowledge, this program will guide you step by step in applying these principles in a meaningful way.
How does the program work?
The program runs for 10 weeks, with each session focusing on a key aspect of NVC and heart-centered communication.
You’ll participate in:
**Live sessions (details TBD)
**Reflective exercises to deepen self-awareness
**Interactive discussions and real-time practice
**Homework assignments to integrate what you learn into daily life
What happens in the final session, “The Hero’s Journey”?
The final session is a powerful reflection on your transformation throughout the program. Participants will look back at their growth, share their experiences, and recognize their journey toward more conscious, loving communication. As part of this, you’ll write a short essay after Session 9 about how the program has impacted you.
How much time will I need to commit?
Each week, you’ll need approximately:
**1-2 hours for the live session (or self-paced learning, if applicable).
**30-60 minutes for reflection, exercises, and practice.
**Additional time for integration (applying what you learn in real life).
What if I miss a session?
Each week, you’ll need approximately:
If you miss a live session, there will be recordings available so you can catch up. However, live participation is highly encouraged for the best experience.
Is this program interactive or self-paced?
This is an interactive program, meaning you’ll engage in discussions, practices, and real-time feedback. If you’re unable to attend live, you can still participate via recordings, but the depth of transformation comes from actively engaging with the group.
Is this only for people in relationships?
Not at all! The skills you’ll learn apply to all relationships—romantic, family, friendships, work, and even your relationship with yourself.
These tools work in all relationship contexts - romantic, family, workplace, friendships, and even with yourself.
How do I sign up?
More details on enrollment will be available at the bottom of this page. If you’re interested, reach out to [email protected] to be notified when the next registration opens.